Decorum | Dear Subs: Understand Your Place

Hello and welcome, here is where you will learn what is expected of you in my world. Your submission is a privilege, and in order to serve me with honor and devotion, you must understand the rules, limits, and kinks that define our dynamic. This is where I set the tone for our relationship, so read carefully and reflect on your place under my control.

Expectations

1. Respect is Non-Negotiable
   At all times, you will address me with respect, acknowledging my superior position. This means using appropriate titles such as “Mistress,” “Goddess,” or “Your Highness” when addressing me. Disrespect will not be tolerated and will result in punishment.

2. Obedience Above All
   Obedience is the cornerstone of our dynamic. You will follow my commands promptly, without hesitation or question. Failure to do so will result in consequences, and your devotion will be tested.

3. Tributes Are Essential
   Financial submission is a key aspect of your service. You will tribute me regularly and without hesitation, as the value of your submission is measured in both your respect and the material offerings you provide. Tribute amounts are non-negotiable once agreed upon.

4. Communication is Key
   You will maintain open and honest communication at all times. If there’s anything you don’t understand, or if you feel overwhelmed, communicate that respectfully. If you are not prepared to fulfill a task or tribute, be honest upfront. I expect honesty, but dishonesty or avoidance will be met with consequences.

5. No Contact Outside of Our Dynamic
   I expect you to respect the boundaries of our dynamic. When we are not engaging in a session, please refrain from contacting me outside the terms we have agreed upon. You will only reach out when given permission or when engaging in tasks I’ve assigned.

Kinks and Desires

I am a firm believer in exploring power dynamics through trust and mutual respect. Here are some of the kinks and activities I enjoy, though keep in mind, the details will evolve as you earn my trust and respect.

1. Financial Domination (Findom)
   Financial submission is an essential part of my world. You will tribute regularly and in accordance with our agreed-upon terms. Your financial offerings will demonstrate your devotion and ensure you remain in my favor. You will not question the amount or frequency, and you will never hesitate to send tribute when instructed.

2. Femdom and Psychological Play
   I enjoy the psychological aspect of domination. Expect mind games, mental challenges, and tests of your devotion. I will take control of your thoughts and your actions—humiliating, teasing, and pushing you to your limits.

3. Humiliation and Degradation
   Humiliation is a powerful tool in reinforcing your submission. If you are chosen for these tasks, you will be expected to accept your place without resistance. This can range from verbal degradation to public humiliation—your comfort zone is of no concern here.

4. Worship
   I expect you to worship my presence, my body, and my feet especially. Whether it’s online or in-person, you will show reverence through your words and actions. This can include adoration, tribute, and complete submission to my physical and mental power.

5. Service and Tasks
   You will be required to perform specific tasks, both online and in-person (if applicable), to prove your worth. Whether it’s financial tasks, personal servitude, or fulfilling my whims, you will show your dedication by completing every task promptly and with the utmost obedience.

6. Control and Denial
   Control is my domain. I will dictate when you can speak, when you can act, and when you are allowed attention. Denial—whether it’s affection, praise, or pleasure—is a tool I will use to keep you craving my approval. Your submission will be tested, and your patience will be pushed.

Limits

While I am open to exploring many aspects of BDSM and domination, there are boundaries that will not be crossed. These are my hard limits, and I expect them to be respected at all times.

1. Physical Harm
   While I may enjoy roleplay and controlled physical interaction, I do not engage in activities that cause lasting harm, permanent scarring, or injury. This includes extreme forms of impact play, bondage that causes injury, or any form of play that could result in severe physical harm.

2. Non-Consensual Activities
   Consent is a key foundation of our dynamic. Anything that goes against the boundaries we’ve established or that happens without explicit consent will not be tolerated. Non-consensual activities, even in fantasy, are not part of my play.

3. Excessive Alcohol or Drug Use
   I do not engage in activities that involve alcohol or drugs in excessive amounts. Your ability to submit is key, and this requires a clear, aware mind.

4. Limits on Public Exposure
   While I may enjoy the idea of some level of public humiliation, I do not engage in acts that could harm my reputation or result in illegal exposure of my identity or yours. Consent extends beyond just us and must be respected.

5. Anything That Violates My Privacy or Yours
   I take my privacy seriously, and I expect you to do the same. Do not attempt to contact me outside of agreed-upon platforms, and never attempt to gather personal information about me. Any breach of privacy will result in immediate removal from my circle of subs and legal action will be taken if necessary.

Methods of Play

Ways to Serve and Please Me

As a sub in my world, you will find multiple ways to express your submission and devotion. Each method of play serves a different purpose, and each one allows you to prove your commitment to me in a unique way. Below are the methods I accept, each designed to test your limits and demonstrate your loyalty.

Silent Sending

Silent sending is a powerful form of submission. In this method, you will offer a tribute or gift to me without seeking direct attention or recognition. It’s a pure act of devotion—silent, humbling, and filled with meaning. You simply send the offering, and your devotion is noted. This is ideal for those who understand that true submission often requires no acknowledgment other than the act itself.

How It Works: Send a tribute, gift, or offering through an agreed method without expecting any immediate feedback or response. Your act of service speaks for itself.

Sessions & Drains

Exploring Your Devotion

In my world, both sessions and drains are essential to demonstrating your true submission. These experiences are designed to push your boundaries, challenge your obedience, and deepen your devotion to me as your superior. Whether you’re here to serve through findom, femdom, or a combination of both, you will experience the thrill of submitting to my power.

Platforms For Play

I utilize several trusted platforms for our sessions and communication. Depending on your preference or our arrangement, we can engage via:

• X (formerly Twitter)

• Discord

• LoyalFans

• Skype

• Email

Each platform offers a different form of connection, and the choice of platform will depend on the nature of our interaction. Whether it’s a quick message on X or an in-depth session on Skype, each method allows you to express your submission and devotion in the way that best suits our dynamic.

Final Thoughts

Your submission to me is an ongoing process. You will constantly prove your worth, your devotion, and your obedience. It is a journey of growth for both of us. I will guide you, but it is your responsibility to maintain the discipline and respect needed to remain in my favor.

If you are ready to serve with respect, obedience, and true devotion, you may find yourself greatly rewarded. If you are unsure, remember: your willingness to submit will be the ultimate test of whether you belong here.

Welcome to my world!